Transaction pending but actually completed

Since 12/28 ive had a transaction “pending” in the wallet. The tranasction went through as normal and everything is ok, but the wallet still says that its pending. Theres no confirmations or anything in the wallet. Mind you the ADA was received by the destination address and has been used, so it was successful. How do I get the wallet to update the transaction status? Ive reset the computer, deleted the blocks and reloaded them. anything else?