For this u will use the topology updater script, to announce the IP + port to the network + u will register the relay to the network, but for the moment wait for the nodes to sync; can take 1-2 days
##On your Relays
ufw default deny incoming
ufw default allow outgoing
ufw limit proto tcp from any to any port [ssh port] #Open port on relays.
ufw allow proto tcp from any to any port [relay node port]
##On your BP
ufw default deny incoming
ufw default allow outgoing
ufw limit proto tcp from any to any port [ssh port] #Open a port for your public_address. This is the port other nodes will connect to.
sudo ufw allow from [relay 1 ip] to any port [bp node port] proto tcp
sudo ufw allow from [relay 2 ip] to any port [bp node port] proto tcp