Changed relay IP mid epoch, what are my options

You are on testnet or private network? Did u used coincashew guide? Do u have gliveview?

i told u, for BP <-> relays connection use the private IPs

private network, coincashew guide, I have gliveview.

I switched to private ips between relays and producer and restarted nodes. How long is it supposed to take for producer to restart… past 2 days it’s taken over 20 minutes and well under that for the relays

Well for my relay it takes ~ 8 minutes with 6vCPU AND 32G RAM