What is going on. Are the relays havign a hard time?
Hi,
It is possible but really IDK if u have the possibility to change the relays inside Daedalus wallet… maybe its time to migrate to a light wallet 
From an old post
Once you have an available node just put the address of it into the topology file.
The default topology file location on Windows is:
c:\Program Files\Daedalus Mainnet
The default topology file location on Linux is:
~/.daedalus/nix/store/XXX-node-cfg-files/topology.yaml
where XXX is series of characters but to find out what is that you can search for the file with find ~/ -name "topology.yaml"
The default topology file location on Mac is:
/Applications/Daedalus Mainnet.app/Contents/Resources/topology.yaml
Cheers