You seem to be going around in circles Linards.
If you have have the seed words for the wallet your ADA is in, then restore the wallet, you will be able to set a new spending password.
If you haven’t got the seed words for the wallet your ADA is in and you don’t know the spending password, then that ADA is stuck in that wallet.
It’s so important to accurately record the seed words and store it in a safe place. A wallet will not allow you finalise setup until you are able to confirm you have recorded the seed words in the correct order.
There are a number of messages which you need to tick and confirm you’re understanding around the seed words. It is then the responsibility of the wallet owner to safely store them.
If you figure out your spending password, create a new wallet and send your ADA there.