Shelly mainnet wallet, no tabs for send/receive?

Hello,

it depends on the wallet type. The old Byron wallets (marked with a red “Byron” flag) need to be converted. Please see our extensive FAQ for more details on that: The Shelley hard fork: all you need to know (section: WHAT DO I NEED TO DO?)

Please also make sure to have a look at the Staking for beginners—A step-by-step guide